Hannah Clarke and Lou Farmer. Photo: Supplied
Hannah Clarke and Lou Farmer. Photo: Supplied

Best friend’s sad farewell to slain mum

THOUSANDS of mourners will gather today to farewell a family murdered by the man who had vowed to protect them.

The funeral for Hannah Clarke and her children Laianah, Aaliyah and Trey will take place in Brisbane today.

It comes nearly three weeks after they were killed by husband and father Rowan Baxter in a murder-suicide that shocked the nation.

Among the mourners is Mrs Clarke's best friend Nikki Brooks, who had a heartbreaking message to share.

Lloyd and Suzanne Clarke, parents to Hannah Clarke, attend a vigil to remember their murdered daughter. Picture: Jono Searle/Getty Images
Lloyd and Suzanne Clarke, parents to Hannah Clarke, attend a vigil to remember their murdered daughter. Picture: Jono Searle/Getty Images

"To this world's most precious and beautiful girl - My dear sweet friend Hannah," the message read.

"I can scarcely believe it's been just a few weeks since you so tragically left us, the splitting of our hearts deafeningly loud, and the ache of your absence is so heavy it's hard to bear.

"How could this world keep turning without you and our little angels? Writing this letter, I wanted to list all the amazing memories since we first met at the local PCYC when you were 14 and I was the big girl 16!

"But sadly, there would never be enough space!

"You always made me laugh even when I knew deep down you were hurting more than any of us could imagine.

"Over the years we sure made some mischief, but we always had each other's backs.

"Remember the time we came home after a few drinks and straightened dad's hair while he slept!

"Or the time you were the sober one, and you bunny-hopped us home not knowing how to drive my manual car!

Hannah's best friend Nikki Brookes talks at the Vigil. Vigil for Hannah Clarke and her three children, Laianah, Aaliyah and Trey at Camp Hill. Sunday. Picture: John Gass/AAP
Hannah's best friend Nikki Brookes talks at the Vigil. Vigil for Hannah Clarke and her three children, Laianah, Aaliyah and Trey at Camp Hill. Sunday. Picture: John Gass/AAP

"You had an irony to your wit, and that smile today even with you gone is resonating across communities far and wide - the beautiful mum and her three little miracles taken from us by someone I refuse to acknowledge.

"I don't know what I ever did to deserve you - I only know your friendship was my home.

"You carried the weight of the world on your shoulders, and we all wish now we could've lightened your load.

"I'm sorry I couldn't protect you. My gorgeous Tim and our boys, Ryder (7) and Brooklyn (4), will be blessed forever knowing your girls, Aaliyah (6) and Laianah (4), will always be our boys' besties.

"When your little Trey (3) came along, I loved how the older ones always held his hand and guided him down their paths of adventure.

Hannah Clarke and her friend Lou Farmer. Photo: Supplied
Hannah Clarke and her friend Lou Farmer. Photo: Supplied

"Those lasting memories will always be with us from New Year's Day this year when you and the kids and your mum and dad, all of us on the beach with not a care in the world.

"We prayed this was the beginning of your new life of freedom - sadly, that was never to be.

"You really were made of equal parts stardust and sass - and you lit up lives as if shining was what you came here to do.

"That light will shine forever in the next place you go.

"I'll never forget you my brilliant friend - for now I'll just bask in your afterglow until we meet again.

"Miss you forever,

"Nikki."

The Brisbane Story bridge was lit up in pink to honour Hannah Clarke and her three children Aaliyah, 6, Laianah, 4, and Trey, 3, on Sunday February 23, 2020. Picture: Sarah Marshall/AAP
The Brisbane Story bridge was lit up in pink to honour Hannah Clarke and her three children Aaliyah, 6, Laianah, 4, and Trey, 3, on Sunday February 23, 2020. Picture: Sarah Marshall/AAP

On February 19, as Mrs Clarke's kids were on their way to school, her estranged husband, Baxter, forced his way onto the front passenger seat and doused his family in petrol before setting them alight.

The children, safely strapped into their child restraints, never stood a chance. Hannah was on fire as she leapt from the driver's seat screaming, "he's poured petrol on me" as people tried to put out the flames.

With burns to 97 per cent of her body, Hannah died in hospital hours later.

Baxter died on the footpath after stabbing himself.

Mourners lay flowers during a vigil to remember murdered mother, Hannah Clarke and her three children at Bill Hewitt Reserve in Camp Hill on February 23, 2020 in Brisbane. Picture: Jono Searle/Getty Images
Mourners lay flowers during a vigil to remember murdered mother, Hannah Clarke and her three children at Bill Hewitt Reserve in Camp Hill on February 23, 2020 in Brisbane. Picture: Jono Searle/Getty Images

The horrific incident has led to renewed calls for more effort to be made to end the scourge of domestic violence in Australia.

Prime Minister Scott Morrison is expected to attend the funeral of Hannah Clarke and her children.

Hannah's family have asked that the details and location of the family's funeral service not be released.

 

If you or anyone you know is looking for support, visit 1800respect.org.au or call 1800 RESPECT. Always dial triple-0 in the event of an emergency.

 

Laianah Clarke and Heidi Farmer. Laianah’s funeral is being held today. Picture: Supplied
Laianah Clarke and Heidi Farmer. Laianah’s funeral is being held today. Picture: Supplied

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